In addition to the two to three books I read every week, one of my weekly “must-reads” is a column in my local Sunday newspaper called Entrepreneurship 101. Written weekly by Kathleen Begley, owner of a communications consulting and training company, www.writecompanyplus.com, the column covers a wide variety of topics that will affect, or have affected, most entrepreneurs.
I usually read Kathleen’s column over breakfast before heading off to church. Yesterday’s column was titled “In Business, Maintain an Emotional Balance.” The gist of the article was that business owners can easily be swayed by either criticism or praise. Unfortunately for many, most feedback seems to be criticism – not because criticism is deserved, but because many happy customers are just that, happy, and don’t feel compelled to write!
Kathleen rightly points out that it is important to keep all criticism in perspective and weigh the negativity against all the good that you also do. In my businesses, Dynamic Communication and No Hassle Newsletters, I can tell you that few things are as stressful as reviewing and signing off on the final proof of a client’s newsletter, knowing that any mistake past this point sits squarely on my shoulders!
The truth is that as hard as I try to make sure every newsletter is error free, unfortunately I don’t always succeed. I learned many years ago how important it is to keep any mistakes (and the criticism that often follows) in proper perspective.
One of the business gurus whom I admire and follow is marketing guru Dan Kennedy. Dan often writes in his No B.S. series of books about the importance of “a thick skin.” Many studies have shown that successful, top-performing people share a common trait: a strong immunity to criticism. To truly succeed and get many things done, you must set aside your “book of excuses” and your need for 100 percent approval and acceptance from everyone. Not only is such a need not healthy, it will impede your growth.
The fact of the matter is, the more things you accomplish and get done (known as “taking massive action”), the greater the chances are that a mistake will be made somewhere. After all, if you don’t get anything done, there is little chance that you will make a mistake!
Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that you should just crank out the work and errors be damned! What I am saying is that you should conduct yourself with integrity and give your clients (and yourself) your best efforts at all times, then keep forging ahead.
Every once in a while, a mistake will happen – I guarantee it! Apologize for it, try to learn from it, correct it if possible, and then move on. Having spent almost 30 years in and around business, I can also tell you that the majority of feedback you receive is likely to be negative.
Most people who are happy with your service will keep doing business with you and, hopefully, tell others. Those not happy will either stop using your service without letting you knowing or will vent. As an owner, use the opportunity of the “venting” to try and salvage the situation and the relationship. If that doesn’t work, at least you tried. That should give you the peace of mind that you are a professional and – no matter what the outcome – that you should keep moving you and your business forward.
If you’d like to learn more about Kathleen, you can visit her blog at http://writecompanyplus.typepad.com. If you’d like to get a copy of my five-part FREE special report “The Awesome Power of Newsletter Marketing” delivered daily to your in-box, simply go to www.nohasslenewsletters.com.